Call me whatever you want, but don’t call me nice. The first thing I think of when I hear that word is doormat. “Well, we have to be NICE to those players because this, that, and the other. So, we can’t enforce our rules all the time.” "We are short numbers, we have to be… Continue reading Don’t call me Nice
I met Lizzie (from London) in Prague when we played lacrosse together in the Prague Cup this past summer. She'd asked me to bring her a copy of my book, which she read during our 10 days of adventure and lacrosse playing in Berlin and Prague. We spoke about my philosophies as a coach and… Continue reading To my recruits and anyone who plays for me..from an athlete’s POV
I am excited to announce the winner of the second annual Jeffrey Howard Conord Scholarship for Team Leadership and Valor for the 18-19 School year is Ben Olson. Ben is a 2018 Graduate of Blaine High School in Minnesota and is an accomplished cross country skier with reputation for training with dedication and focus. His… Continue reading 2018-19 Jeffrey Howard Conord Scholarship Winner Announced!
It’s the worst way to learn something. It doesn’t allow for time or space to think and make decisions. It doesn’t answer a fundamental “why”. It doesn’t allow thinking to measure effect of actions. It doesn’t allow for the brain to even engage or hear itself. It causes panic and a distrust of one's own… Continue reading Are you giving your kid a disadvantage to learning?
No one wishes for heartache. No one daydreams about massive disappointment. You don't hear about anyone making goals or grinding for change that's in a direction going away from their plans and dreams. No one marks the calendar for the day they hope what they want most is shattered on the floor. But we try… Continue reading Shattered
The money has been paid, the work put in, the sunscreen applied, the whistle blown. It’s game time in the summer as college coaches line the side of the field with ipads, laptops and notebooks. You wrote your favorite school several times hoping they would come see you play, and as you look over, there… Continue reading Get “off-ball” Recruited!
I believe in belief as the ultimate motivational tool. Not a belief in an uncontrollable outcome, like winning a championship or breaking a record. But a belief in growth, finding greatness, in each other and building connections. We can’t control if our team reaches that final championship game. There are injuries, off days, so many… Continue reading the ultimate motivational tool
When was the last time you climbed on a bus, sat in the middle of a group, actually wearing the uniform instead of sitting up front with your coaching clipboard in hand? When is the last time you had to adapt to 20 strangers taking the field for the first time together, barely knowing each… Continue reading Stepping into my Players Shoes
There's so much to the system I use to bring teams up quickly, but I tried to take my key concepts and outline them for you. Its girls' lacrosse focused but likely could be adapted to a number of sports. Hope you can grab some ideas to help your team find success on the scoreboard… Continue reading Build teams fast Part 1
I can be optimistic, but I'm more of a realist. Yes, I fully think we can win this game, but when things are going bad and the only adjustment I can make is to hope and wish that my players start doing what they already know how to do but aren't executing - then I… Continue reading Game Recovery: When your team is not playing well